A Read Around Write.as – March 15, 2021
Some interesting posts I've discovered in these parts over the last while:
Some interesting posts I've discovered in these parts over the last while:
Yes, you read that correctly. Your writing will never be perfect. Whatever perfect means when it comes to writing.
Why? Perfection is impossible. Full stop. So stop arguing with me, kids.
It's rare for what you write to come out the way you originally envisioned it. There will always be deviations, deficiencies, small flaws due to deadline pressures or your inexperience or any number of other factors.
And there's nothing wrong with that. Just as jewelers don't reject diamonds with flaws, you shouldn't stress about flawed writing.
Don't let the demon of perfectionism hold you back. If you keep waiting to submit or publish your writing in the vain hope of making it perfect, you'll never submit or publish anything. If you let perfectionism paralysis take hold, you'll never finish writing anything.
Writing and rewriting in an endless cycle, trying to make your work perfect, will lead you to never finishing what you're trying to write. It could reach a point where perfectionism paralysis stops you from starting anything.
That's no way to improve your writing. That's no way to pick up the skills and experience you that you want to pick up.
Instead, make what you write as good as you can get it. Then, click Send or click the Publish button. Yes, there will be people who will heap criticism on you and what you've written — some of that criticism could be quite cruel or personal. But you might also get some positive feedback, which will help you improve and grow.
If you're ever on the fence, ask yourself this question: What's the worst that could happen if I submit or publish my writing? Chances are you won't become a social pariah or be branded an abject failure. Rejection or criticism might be setbacks, but they're setbacks you can, and should, learn from.
Contrary to what a few people might tell you, I'm all for people trying to learn more and improve themselves.
My view of self improvement and continuous education is this:
Take control of your learning. Take control of your development. Go with your gut and your interests. Don't be afraid to move on if you find something's not right for you, that you're not making progress, or if you've learned everything that you needed to learn. And definitely don' shy away from learning something because it's not practical.
At the start of 2021, I told myself no new gadgets or electronics for the next 12 months. So far, I've managed to stick to that.
A few weeks later, I decided to extend that to include books — whether new or used, printed or electronic. Instead, I'm taking 2021 to do something I don't do enough of: rereading books that I haven't cracked open in 10, 20, or even 30 years.
Why? To reacquaint myself with works that I've enjoyed or which helped shape my thinking. To see if those books have held up after all this time. To again expose my brain to the ideas in those books. To find out how my thinking and perception have changed. To uncover ideas I might have missed the last time I read those books.
I might find myself asking Why did I get into this book? I might find myself wondering why I didn't reread a book earlier. Or I might have another reaction.
I'm looking forward to finding out what happens.
It's a waste of time
I've heard those words uttered so often in my life. Sometimes about what I wanted to do or was doing. Sometimes about what others wanted to do or were doing. And, to be honest, I'm sure I've said that more than a few times.
And they could be talking about anything. A hobby. A pursuit. A dream. Something you're reading or watching.
Think about the people say that. They most likely are people who don't understand the appeal of what you're doing. They're probably people who have fallen into the idle hands mindset (as in the devil makes work for ...). They're probably people who believe that everything you do, everything you pursue needs to be practical.
Guess what? They're wrong. Wrong about you. Wrong about what you're doing. And they're wrong to point it out.
Why? Because it's your time. What you do with it is no one's concern but your own. You can do with it what you will. If you enjoy doing something frivolous, if you're enriched by something, then it's not a waste of time.
Here's an example: on and off for the last few months, I've been picking up my daughter's acoustic guitar and learning some basic chords. I can strum maybe half a dozen of them. I definitely can't quickly shift between them, and I know I'll never be able to play a tune.
Some people have said I'm wasting my time. Why do that if you're not going to learn to play the guitar properly? they've asked. The point is that I'm having fun. I'm using my brain and body in a slightly different way than I normally do, and the 15 minutes I take to pick up that guitar offer a nice break during the day.
Don't jump on to the assembly line of productivity just for the sake of productivity. Don't believe that everything you do needs to be practical or useful or serious. Don't feel the need to get more done.
Instead, waste your time, as long as it doesn't affect other aspects of your life. You may not be more productive, but your life will be a little more well rounded and a lot more fun.
Sometimes, you run into an article or essay that strikes a chord with you. Sometimes, you run into one that leaves you shaking your head.
In the latter category is an article published in August of 2014 about a man who quantified all of the communications he had during 2013. Yes, all of them. Email, SMS, postal mail. And his in-person conversations. He:
pulled out his phone and tracked the occurrence, measuring the conversation's length, where it occurred, and, most bogglingly, all the subjects discussed.
Like what? How about:
But I really have to ask What was the point?
By analyzing all of the data that he collected, will he have better or more efficient and effective conversations in the future? Will he grow closer to others? Will he focus more on one channel of communication? Will he deepen his in-person conversations? Will he pull out pithy nuggets that he can use again, in some other form?
I can't see any of that happening.
What do those numbers that he derived mean in practical terms? I don't think the data that he collected and recorded can quantify the quality of the interactions that he had. I've had long conversations with people, conversations that led to nothing. But those conversations were enjoyable because I was communicating with interesting people who I liked and with whom I was at ease. I didn't come to any profound conclusion about the ethical structure of the universe, but I felt better after having had those conversations.
In practical terms, was all the time and effort that he spent collecting and collating and analyzing and visualizing that data worth it? Or could that time and effort have been channelled into something else that could potentially be more worthwhile?
Data can be useful. But it's not the be all, end all. So much lies beneath data that even best analysis and mining tools can't come close to touching it. What lies beneath is the human factor.
Do you want to live a better life? Then focus on your life. Do things. Make changes. Live. Don't become a slave to data. Don't expect the data to provide you with some truth or path. That lies within you.
Not being a foodie (though someone who likes good ice cream), I never thought that I'd be interested in the history of ice cream in New Zealand. But I'll be darned if it isn't a fascinating, intriguing story.
And that there's a group that, since 1927, has kept meticulous records as well as publishing journals and magazines about that subject is equally fascinating.
If it wasn't so lazy, I'd dash to the local dairy or supermarket to get myself an ice cream. Maybe tomorrow on the way home from The Day JobTM ...
We all know people who seem to live on their screens. People who spend an inordinate amount of time swiping and tapping, pointing and clicking, twiddling and twerning. At email. At social media. At instant messages. At whatever their screens throw at them.
No matter what time of day or night, one of their devices is always on. It's always within easy reach. Those folks are always connected in one way or another.
I don't see the point of being constantly connected. I don't see it as a great way to live. In fact, I'd argue that being constantly connected isn't living at all.
Being constantly connected is a distraction from your life.
But there are far too many people who can't separate themselves from their phones or tablets or laptops. Why? It could be fear of missing out. It could be they're enjoying that little hit of dopamine they get when they check something. It could be the idea that being constantly plugged into the online world is an essential part of living in the 21st century.
By being constantly connected, you're trading depth for quick hits of what amounts to little or nothing. Alerts and notifications, constant check ins or tweeting or posting to Instagram break up the flow of what you're doing. They break up the flow of your life.
Think about why you feel the need to be constantly connected. Then remember that constantly lifelogging doesn't make an experience better or more memorable. Remember that constantly jumping whenever you get a notification doesn't enrich or improve your life. Remember that constantly scanning social media, RSS feeds, news, and email doesn't necessarily make you better informed or smarter.
The time and attention you spend on all of that could be better spent on other, more important matters. Matters that that have more substance, more depth, and more meaning to you and to your life.
You could better spend that time with your friends and family — focusing on them, on the conversations and interactions you're having, on your shared joy, on the moment. You could better expend that effort learning something or reading in depth. You could use that time to relax and reflect.
You can survive, you can thrive by cutting your connection for even a few hours a day. You only need to give it a try.
Back in 2015, I briefly chatted with John O'Nolan, one of the founders of a blogging platform called Ghost. You're probably wondering why the web needs another blogging platform, when WordPress powers millions of blogs and websites.
O'Nolan used to work for Automattic (the company behind WordPress). But he found that WordPress had:
too much stuff everywhere, too much clutter, too many (so many) options getting in the way of what I really want to do: publish content
Instead, O'Nolan wanted to take blogging back to basics. And Ghost was born.
During our chat, O'Nolan mentioned that he didn't intend for Ghost to reach feature parity with WordPress. Ever. That's not the niche the Ghost inhabits.
I wholeheartedly agree with O'Nolan. Not everyone has the same needs. Not everyone is a power user, regardless of what many software developers seem to think.
But the feature parity argument persists. I generally hear it from people who are thinking of switching to something that doesn't pack all of the features found in the tool or application they usually use. Regardless of whether they use those features or not. And it's usually not.
I find the feature parity argument comes from two distinct directions. First, from people who use it as a crutch. A crutch that gives them an excuse not to try something new or to make a change, even if that something new or that change will simplify and streamline their digital lives.
Second, from people who whine about missing features and only do so because they can. They aren't the application's the target audience. Even if the tool did have the features they want (or think they need), I doubt they'd use it. I doubt the tool would be suited to their needs.
If feel you can't adopt a tool because it lacks feature x or feature y, or because it can't perform a certain task, ask yourself these three questions:
From my experience as a technology coach, I've found that many people rarely (if ever) use the features that are supposedly deal breakers. They just need to take a little time to adapt and adjust.
Feature parity isn't something that's important to everyone. More features, especially if you don't use them, aren't always better. It's too easy to fall into the contingency mindset when it comes to features — thinking that maybe one day you'll need feature x, even though that day rarely comes.
Don't buy into the hype of feature parity. Instead of thinking in terms of features, think about what you need to do. Not at some point in the distant future, but right now. Then, think of what you need to do it. Chances are, you'll discover that you don't need something big and powerful to get your work done. You probably just need something simple, light, and streamlined.